It was, most likely, as much of a shock to your parents as it was to you to find out you were pregnant. They will definitely have an opinion on what you should do, but ultimately, the final decision is yours.
When deciding whether to place your child for adoption, your parents do not have to agree with your decision. You can choose what you believe is best.
Do I Have Rights as a Minor?
Adoption laws vary from state to state. Most states make no distinction between a minor and an adult birth parent when deciding to place your child for adoption.
Working with a reputable, licensed child-placing agency or attorney is vital. You need someone who thoroughly understands your state’s laws and takes the time to explain them to you.
In Texas, a birth mother must wait 48 hours after giving birth before she can consent to the adoption. She signs an affidavit for voluntary termination of her parental rights, at that time. By signing, she agrees to give the adoptive parents all parental rights and responsibilities legally.
What Should I Do If My Parents Don’t Support Me?
Placing a child for adoption isn’t a one-and-done event. It is a lifetime decision. Sometimes, you must make choices your parents may not understand.
Research the various adoption facilitators in your area. Choose the one that will prioritize your needs. We are not a child-placing agency at Cleburne Pregnancy Center, but we can offer referrals to reputable adoption agencies nearby.
By including your family in the choice of adoption facilitators, the type of adoption plan, and selecting the couple who will raise your child, they may gain a greater understanding. The more information you can provide your family and friends about the adoption process, the more they will understand your decision.
Let your parents know that it costs you nothing to make an adoption plan. You and your child’s legal and medical expenses are covered. Plus, you can receive assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses, including rent, utilities, counseling, etc.
How Can Cleburne Pregnancy Center Help Me?
Regardless of your age or circumstances, a caring advocate at Cleburne Pregnancy Center is happy to meet with you. We understand how stressful this situation is and want to assist you in finding the best solution possible.
Learn more about adoption, and contact us if you have questions. You can easily make a free and confidential appointment online. It is painful when your family doesn’t support you in one of the most significant decisions of your life, but you can find support from others. We are here to encourage you.